Simplicity.
Ever since you said yes, it seems like there are questions to be answered and choices to be made. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the whole thing and wishing it could be more simple the good news is it can be! Traditional weddings aren't always the right fit for every couple for a multitude of reasons. Maybe you've heard of elopements before but never imagined you'd be the type to do it. Or perhaps you're just now being introduced to the world of micro-weddings and don't quite understand the difference. Let me break it down for you exactly what the difference between the two are and hopefully help you take some stress out of what is supposed to be one of the most exciting times in your life.
Elopements
Historically, elopements were a secret kind of wedding that were happening far away from everyone and usually in total secrecy. Over the years, they have become a bit more intentional and not so secret anymore. An elopement is an intimate wedding experience that typically involves just the couple or a very small group (often under 10 people). The main goal of such weddings is stripping away the noise and focusing entirely on your connection and emotions that arise during your wedding day. Elopements often take place in scenic or meaningful locations such as remote mountains, scenic coastlines, near a lake, or anywhere you like.
Micro-Weddings
A micro wedding is essentially a smaller-scale traditional wedding. It’s a world just above the elopements (when it comes to guest numbers) as it usually includes 10 to 30 guests and retains some of the elements of a typical wedding, such as ceremony, reception, and even speeches or a dinner. Feel free to consider a micro wedding as a traditional wedding, but in a more intimate and simplified way. It allows couples to celebrate with their nearest family and friends without the stress or scale of a large event. A micro wedding is a great way to include only the dearest people and enjoy a stress-free wedding.
Guest List
Elopement: Typically, 0 to 10 people
Micro-Wedding: Around 10 to 30 guests
Venue types
Elopement: Often outdoors, remote, or highly personal (no formal venue is required, although it can be used)
Micro-Wedding: Usually held in a small venue, private estate, restaurant, or boutique hotel
Order of the Day
Elopement: Often free-flowing with minimal formalities
Micro-Wedding: Structured more like a traditional wedding (ceremony, reception, etc.)
Experince
Elopement: Focuses entirely on the experience of the couple
Micro-Wedding: Still couple-focused, but includes shared moments with loved ones
Cost